The risk of your personality strengths derailing

The wine spills, the successful leader can derail

Uncertainty seems to be a feature of our news, the business literature, and the lived experience of leaders envisioning the path ahead. The BANI framework—coined for describing the Brittle, Anxious, Nonlinear, and Incomprehensible modern world we have created—captures this moment. Yet all the discourse, whilst acknowledging how people are feeling, also feeds the fire of our emotions about being out of control. 

Feelings of uncertainty seem to be heightened by a realising that for all the dominant agentic outlook promoted as a leadership model and experienced as the norm in modern society, we are in fact not in control of our business world, let alone our existence beyond it. We never were, even at times when events seemed more predictable. For many in less financially affluent parts of the world, this reality—that we live in a complex world and that everyday existence is precarious—is not new. It always was. Resilience is part of the human make-up, and our minds and bodies have inbuilt survival mechanisms to bounce back from reasonable levels of anxiety about life’s uncertainties. 

Risk in being about probability, is different from uncertainty. It is usually viewed through a lens of likelihood of an event and its impact. It is more quantifiable and more controllable. Risk management strategies in business tend to be: mitigate, avoid, reduce, transfer, or accept it, or any combination of these. For a leader there are many risks to manage.  In smaller entities held in the head and body, in larger entities, a documented framework with a dashboard, perhaps with algorithms feeding it. 

Many of the financial and operational controls in your organisation manage the risk of humans intentionally or accidentally, acting contrary to expectation. This can have  considerable impact on performance, finances, and reputation. 

The Risk No One is Tracking

The one set of risks unlikely to be on a risk framework is the one that interests me here and ought to interest every leader: the risks of your personality when you use, then over-use, your strengths

Consider the shadow of a key strength you and others rely on for success. How you use that strength when your guard is down due to stress, pressure, anger, frustration, hunger, tiredness, illness, or when very comfortable in a situation. This sub-optimal state can compromise your performance and stability. Visualise any racket sport player fully extending to reach a ball, or a fighter in a similar fully extended position. Referred to as derailing by Hogan Assessments and as over-extending by Lumina, this phenomenon is masked by the proven benefits to success of using our strengths. 

Do you recognise this in yourself, a peer, or your boss? Do not be surprised if you don’t.

Self-awareness is the most potent tool for managing this risk—a tool which many leaders possess in good measure in a broad sense. Danger lurks in the blind spot we all have from successful deployment of our strengths to reach our leadership positions. The warm, empathetic, and sociable leader who avoids feedback conversations they sense would be difficult. The outgoing, ambitious, daring leader who stops listening and takes an uncalculated risk on a major decision.

Circling back to that key strength you identified earlier: when you have used it effectively under less-than-optimal conditions in the past, which aspects of your personality have you actively had to manage to remain effective in decisions, actions, and relationships, so the strength doesn’t get in your way and that of your team?

Managing the Risk

Proven ways to manage the risk of derailing and over-extending include:

  • Proactively activating your personal values in sub-optimal conditions
  • Using another strength to control it
  • Having a trusted third party to spot and remind you to be mindful

Pay particular attention during any transition in your leadership role, and at known pressure point cycles in your monthly or annual calendar—preparing for Board meetings, project deadlines, performance reviews.

Underpinning all of this is taking your physical, mental, spiritual, and social wellbeing seriously. This provides a robust base from which to respond to sub-optimal conditions—and to catch yourself before your greatest strengths become your greatest liabilities.

Can a leader or aspiring leader learn strategic thinking?

Yes, is the short answer. How? Learn by doing.

John C. Maxwell in his book “Thinking for a Change” set out some steps which I have adapted from my own experience and learning to express below.

Be clear, why you want to learn strategic thinking skills and how you will recognise that you have acquired them.

Choose what you want to think about. Start small.  This may be a problem, an improvement or an aspiration.

Break down a big issue to explore it – is it immediate, a little in the future or further in the future? Who does it concern – a few people in a team/group or many people in many groups?

Ask “Why?” before “How?” The urgency in a fast-paced world to find a solution, may in fact be slower if one’s initial efforts are abandoned and re-worked. The answer to Why? will provide a wider perspective and options for a solution.  Admittedly, this may not be appropriate in some emergency or tactical circumstances.

Evaluate where you are now (A) & accept the situations, your strengths, weaknesses. Then identify where you want to get to on the specific issue (B). Evaluate how to realistically get from (A) to (B). An assessment of opportunities for getting to (B), other opportunities and threats to achieving (B), would deepen your understanding.

What else is going on? Getting the bigger picture, creates context for the issue and options for resolution. Your Political, Economic, Social, Technological, Legal and Environmental context matters when considering choices and their consequences. The structure and the behaviour of your Competitors may also influence your choice of options.

Check your resources – skills, funds, people, competences that make you uniquely successful need assembling and nurturing.

Decide – your decision-making will be best if it takes account of your thinking (head), feeling (heart) and possibility visioning (courage).

Develop actionable steps to start is a mantra for success because as we know, action brings change.

Repeat the steps often and learn lessons from the successes as well as the failures. Utilise these lessons to influence future actions.

Practice these steps and observe your outcomes to see benefits of strategic thinking. I hope it is worth it for you, as it is for Joseph.

Author: Joseph Ogbonna

Personal confidence

How much do you believe, in your quiet moments, that you are valuable and can see evidence of your value, even if others don’t admit it?  If you don’t believe, you’ve got make the effort to find and believe the evidence.   It will take some time and you may need a mirror in a trusted person.  Wounds can heal.

Fisherman out on a boat (Credit: pixabay/Mhy)

Work-Life

As usual, I started with curiosity: What do I know about work-life balance? What do I even know about Balance? Is my own work-life balanced? What does it mean to have a balance, really? What is in balance and what is out of balance?

My assertion is that the mindset one chooses in a situation affects one’s experience of balance. Although a bold statement, it is true of my experience. Do you know someone who works punishing hours and appears contented? It strikes me that individuals either define their own balance or go with the default that is in-built.

In giving a meaning to ’balance’, a picture of evenly weighted scales flashes up, but is this it? Our uniqueness must show up in balance. Individuals weight experiences differently, after-all. If this is so, one person may for example, consider ‘balance’ from a specific time perspective different from another’s. Examples may help. If Kim was awake for 16 out of the 24 hours in a day, and worked for 8 of them, that may be balanced for her but not for John, her friend. A third friend, Eby may consider balance from a weekly or even monthly perspective – with questions like how much time did I spend sleeping, with my family, in leisure, and so on this month? This change of time perspective would change the experience of balance for Kim, John and Eby. Considering balance from this viewpoint may suggest that everything else stands still while one finds balance.

Context changes the experience of balance. Missing an opportunity to watch a child’s performance by whilst at work, would alter the individual’s experience of balance. If working long hours for many years, doing what I enjoy doing, results in ill-health, my perspective on balance might change. From an external impact perspective, if loved ones don’t see enough of one, their reaction could affect one’s experience of balance. Many major family stresses can be traced back to similar differences in perception. Getting a promotion could change the experience of time and effort invested in work, if that promotion enables a more fulfilling life. This raises the question of what value life would have without work, a question may be contemplating and many more are likely to ponder in the later 21st Century.

An inheritor of considerable wealth would experience work differently from the creator of that wealth. I confess that I enjoy working and so do not consider my life to be on hold whilst I work. Does this mean I lack balance or I’m incapable of defining it?

Thinking through this, I conclude that an individual’s definition of balance is the starting point for finding work-life balance. Their selves, what is important to them in the long term, and in the short term. It is only when one knows these, that one can choose what balance is, in daily actions and in developing the awareness to recognise balance. For one person, it may be writing code or designing campaigns for many hours, then switching off completely to spend a few quality hours with oneself and in non-work related family or charitable activity. This is fine if it works for her.

What Ruuvand does for individuals and for society

I know some history and development of capitalism.  However, reading an excellent article “Good Companies” in the latest  RSA Journal, which relays the historical role of business in society, it  hit home to me as a business owner. The article sketched how businesses were started to serve customer and society needs. Sainsbury’s and M&S gave access to farm produce, Rowntree and Cadbury’s provided chocolate of an assured standard which consumers demanded . This is causing me to ask the question of my company, Ruuvand, what gap are we plugging for individuals and for society?  What are we helping clients and society to access more of, more easily or more cost effectively? Tough question for me!

 

Here is my response.  We make meaning from our values and considerable energy can be generated from them. Yet few of us invest time in clarifying our values or in challenging our mindsets as a starting point for achievement.  No wonder work-life balance is out of kilter for most people. Some are are fortunate to single-handedly identify their values and live value-led lives. We spend most of our time learning how “to do” and choosing what “to have”, but precious little time on who and how “to be”.  It is not necessarily the long hours or the tough demands of the job that tips the balance, but often the mindset.  

Mindset determines our attitude and approach.  What we do at Ruuvand is help people to develop a Mindset to achieve their highest aspirations, best performance and to meet their toughest challenges.  We get there faster than if the individual or group were working on their own.

When our clients develop a chosen Mindset, they often go on to achieve their aims whilst maintaining their well-being.  For most people, a “Reach-back mindset” is key, reaching into who they really are, which can be different from who they have become.

Ruuvand’s impact on society is evident in our clients’ achievements and their positive impact on people they interact with in their lives.